Adding Vitality to Your Relationship

In a few days I will be in Brazil for two weeks.  Since this is a vacation for me I have decided not to take my laptop along.   However, the beauty of an internet business is that I can still stay in touch.  There is this wonderful feature of being able to predate my [...]

Value of Monetary Incentives

Does a financial incentive inspire people to take their medications regularly?  I just read about a study in Philadelphia where people were being paid a certain amount in order to take their medications regularly.  Apparently non compliance is a big problem and accounts for more than $100 billion in health costs annually because those patients [...]

Leaving the Comfort Zone

When we build a strong personal foundation we believe that we are capable of more.  There are usually habits, lack of knowledge, or beliefs we have about our self that hold us back. As we start strengthening these areas we see that our picture of who we are begins to change.

I [...]

Why Self-Growth and Relationship Skills?

I have been asked as to why on this site I stress  both self-growth and relationship skills.  Why not just focus on one or the other.  In my mind they are linked.

I think  that it is through  self-growth  that positive changes occur in  marriages/relationships. The stronger one’s self-worth (the result of self-growth) the easier it [...]

Communication:”Saying Nothing Sometimes Says The Most”

A friend of mine who is an action taker has as her byline: “Saying nothing sometimes says the most.” She gets involved in causes she believes in because to say nothing  to her means she does not care.  As I look back on my life I can see that there have been  many times when [...]

Vibrant After Fifty Blog Talk Radio Show

Today’s radio show was again on strengthening emotional energy.  The focus was on establishing good boundaries.  In order to make the most of life after fifty we need energy and having strong boundaries frees us so we can make our dreams a reality.

Are you familiar with the  phrase: Circle of Confidence?  I think  it is [...]

Be OK With Who You Are

Recently I came across this quote by Louis Hay that I really love because it captures the essence of self empowerment.  ” When you make it OK to be yourself then you automatically allow others to be themselves.  Their little habits no longer bother you so much.  You release the need to “change them” as [...]

Relationship Skill: Validate Yourself

One of the most important skills to learn is how to validate ourselves and others.  We have to really believe that we are not what we do.   We are valuable because of who we are.

I am reminded of this lovely young woman who agonized about the soup she was preparing for a  get together of [...]

Are You Caught in the “If Only” Hold?

How often have you heard people say that they would do something “if only” that would happen first? I see “if only” as the biggest reason why people in their second half of life find themselves on hold. They are waiting for something to happen first. I certainly understand that since I have done my [...]