There is a curious dichotomy about making changes. The more we accept ourselves as being fine just the way we are, the easier it becomes to grow in new directions. Why is that? By seeing ourselves as being OK and whole, we no longer have to worry about completing what is not OK. It frees us up to expand who we are because we want to and not because we have to make ourselves OK.
How does one grow as a person? There are two ways to look at change: 1. do something differently and 2. view something differently. Within all of us there is an inborn drive to keep growing. Life is in constant change around us. We limit ourselves when we forget to do it consciously. What keeps us vibrant and alive is to 1. change the doing and 2. change the viewing in order to grow into the person we want to be.
